[Kaygeebby]

I have very strange pains in my lower abdomen, I don't know what it is, no I'm not pregnant, I don't drink or take drugs, it gets so bad I'm bent over in pain, does anyone know what could be causing this?

[J_9]

How old are you?

How often does this happen?

[joypulv]

Why haven't you told a parent?
Your stomach is above your abdomen, but regardless, there are any number of reasons for the pain, some of which could be serious, like an appendix about to burst.

[Kaygeebby]

I'm 15.
And I have told my parent, but she doesn't care.
So I'm trying to find out myself

[J_9]

You have NEVER been sexually active?

[Kaygeebby]

I was raped about 11 weeks ago? If that's what you mean?

[joypulv]

Yes, of course that's important. Please go to a clinic, school nurse, even an ER. Although we can't possibly diagnose, there are some possibilities related to sexual contact (again, it could be related or not, it could be many things). Your mother should go with you to a clinic so that she won't be charged with neglect. A clinic is much better than an ER for this type of situation.

[Kaygeebby]

My real mother and father have died. I'm currently living with adopted parents, and there only care is there little 'baby boy'. So if I'm 15 where can I go to seek advice on my own?

[joypulv]

Start with the school nurse. Tell her everything, including the rape. What country are you in? Do you know of any clinics? Some are 'walk in' types and some are connected to hospitals, so you could also call a hospital and ask. If you live in a very rural area, the nurse will know what to do.

[Kaygeebby]

I'm home schooled and I live in australia. So that doesn't work :(

[joypulv]

Some parents you have, I'm so sorry! (I'll bet you didn't report the rape, but that's another issue.)
OK, how rural an area is it? Do you have a phone book with yellow business pages? Can you find any listings under Medical Clinics, Hospitals, that are within a reasonable distance?

[Kaygeebby]

I'm not sure, I'm only allowed outside my room during class. Where would it usually be kept? I can try and sneak out my room tonight but usually my so called father sleeps outside my room

[joypulv]

The next time you have the pains, stay in your room and tell them you can't move from so much pain and have to see a doctor.

Why are you confined to your room? Did it start after being raped? Do they blame you? Were you out with friends? Do you get to have contact with friends now? Do you have a computer and internet in your room, or where are you now?

[Kaygeebby]

I was raped by my adopted father, I am on my mobile which they are unaware I have internet on. I have no contact with my friends, my adopted father blocked all there numbers.

[Kaygeebby]

Can anyone help?

[joypulv]

Kaygeebby, most of us are asleep when you are awake, many time zones away.
You need to get out of the house and go to the police, either through a neighbor or if not too rural, walking into town.
You aren't answering enough questions, but that's understandable if you are on mobile. Get away from that house and that man NOW.

[Kaygeebby]

I'm trying to get away from the house and him, but its just like I'm trapped in a prison.

[joypulv]

Next time the door is open, RUN. How far are you from a neighbor?

[Kaygeebby]

A couple of metres away from my neighbour, and I would but I can never get out of my room, unless I do it during class, and I go to the "bathroom" ?

[ramirezpearl]

Get out as soon as you can you don't need to be in that house like that and have him doing that to you