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    Sep 18, 2011, 09:22 AM
    Is my boyfriend gay?
    I have a pretty interesting situation and I need answers. I've been dating thi s guy for about two months now. We talk every day and have a great time together, but we've never done anything sexual. We've only kissed on the lips and cuddled. However, he is 28 and has told me he lived in Europe for most of his life where he had threesomes with a guy and other girls. He's willing to have a threesome with another guy. I asked him if he would with two girls and he said he would, he just said it would be uncomfortable and he's more comfortable with a guy. Also, he has a guy best friend who he talks about everything with. He's told me they took a bath together and smoke a blunt. He is willing for me to meet him and he knows that I'm his girlfriend so he wouldn't be hiding anything from me. Why would he tell me this if he wasn't gay? Wouldn't he be trying to hide things like this from me? I've asked him if he is gay before and he always gets mad. He compares him and his guy best friend to me and my best girl friend... like for example, he's seen his guy friend naked and I've seen her naked so it's no big deal. I've confronted him about being gay again and he said he doesn't like being aggravated about sex and being pushed to do things. Which, granted, I do frequently. He also says were in an "open relationship" and I can do things with other guys but he seems to get jealous sometimes. I have no idea what to do. I just don't think he would be this open with me about these things if he was gay. Maybe he's bi sexual or just doesn't like sex? He told me he thinks sex is nasty... so I don't know.
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    Sep 18, 2011, 09:25 AM
    Rather than guessing, have you actually ASKED him..
    Communications is needed if any relationship is to last..
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    Sep 18, 2011, 09:42 AM
    This was asked and answered a couple week ago ( appears you copied or cut and pasted your first question)

    I am closing this question.

    If you have more info, or wish to respond the people who tried to help you the first time, please do

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