[liltanker32]

I meet this girl two weeks ago, She told me she had just become official with a guy a week prior. The next day we hang out, she is so amazing. Mind you I have been single for 8 months after a break up when I found out my ex cheated on me. We have been seeing each other for 2 weeks now. She told the guy she was just seeing that she wanted to be friends and not date. We instantly connected. I am the type of person who normally keeps my guard up with women for a month or two to feel them out before I let my emotions get into it. I didn't on this one, I instantly put my guard down, and I think it was because I just felt that connection that I don't normally feel so early.

I really want to be with this girl, last night after she left, she text me and told me that her mind was going a million miles a minute. I asked her what was up. This is the cut down version. She said that she really likes me, she told me that I am her soul mate, I never believed in soul mate before this. But I am starting to think it could be true, like the girl I have been dreaming about. She tell me she wants to be with me but she is missing this guy she just broke it off with and that she needs time to get over him.

I am not sure what to make of this. She asked me if I believed we would be together whether it is tomorrow or two years from now and I didn't know how to answer that. I am having some many crazy feeling that I have never had this early in a relationship with someone.

[talaniman]

She asked for time, give it to her, and take some time for yourself to understand your feelings, and get them under control.

You would be very wise to go slow, and be cautious, and not get carried away by a stranger, that can dump someone a week after getting with them, and smooth talk someone else into waiting for them.

Get some facts before you throw your eggs into her basket, or fall in so deep, you can't get out.