Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    santana123's Avatar
    santana123 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #1

    Sep 8, 2011, 06:26 PM
    Husband/Father abandoned our family
    I have been married for 7 years. We have one child together and he has a child from a previous marriage.My husband packed up his stuff and moved out two weeks ago. I DO NOT want a divorce. He says he just wasn't happy.I am on permanent disability. I receive social security. He tells me that I am now responsible for the household bills. I can't do this with the amount I receive from Social Security. Not sure what to do at this point.
    Fr_Chuck's Avatar
    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
    Expert
     
    #2

    Sep 8, 2011, 06:55 PM
    First you may not have a choice about divorce if he files for it first. Next if not a divorce you need a legal separation if he is not coming back to protect yourself.

    You file for custody of the child ( yours) his other child I will assume is with their mother ?

    But you file for custody and child support, Besides that you will have to find a way to pay the bills, or move to some place where you can.

    In a divorce you may get alimony but if you are not divorcing that is not a option
    ScottGem's Avatar
    ScottGem Posts: 64,966, Reputation: 6056
    Computer Expert and Renaissance Man
     
    #3

    Sep 9, 2011, 03:49 AM
    Talk to an attorney. He can't just abandon you. If you don't want a divorce, you can try for a separation as Chuck suggests with temporary support.

Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions

 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Can a father get legal custody of daughters if wife abandoned the family 3 yrs ago? [ 2 Answers ]

I'm asking this as a concerned god-parent. My god-daughter will be 5 this year. She has 3 older sisters ages 7,9,& 10. 3 yrs ago her mother decided to leave her family for a married man, who is also a known drug dealer. Her husband who she left is a youth minister at a church. He is trying to get a...

Father has custody after mother abandoned family [ 4 Answers ]

I have 3 beautiful kids, ages 13, 11, and 6. my husband and I are legally separated. He has full sole custody. Legally have visitation. Which states every other Sunday supervised visits at his moms . I abandoned my husband and kids 4 years ago and got into a lot of trouble. But now that is all...

Father abandoned? [ 2 Answers ]

I am presently married and my daughters possible biological dad has came into the pic after she is 11 yrs old. He has not contacted me until now and was incarcerated when she was born. My daughter has my husbands last name and he also signed birth certifacate. Do I have any rights as to not wanting...

Father abandoned daughter one and a half years ago and step father wants to adopt [ 1 Answers ]

Hi, I have a question. My daughters father completely stopped contact with my daughter a year and a half ago. We were separated for eight years, Since then I have remarried and gone on with my life. He suddenly stopped all contact with her a year and a half ago, stopped child support about three...

Father abandoned my son [ 4 Answers ]

Here is my question, Dec. 2001 I legally divorced my husband, Father to my then 1 year old son. He has not seen my son since he was approx. 5 months old. He was ordered to pay Child Support, Daycare expenses, and keep up with the Health Insurance for my son. He has done none of these things. I...


View more questions Search