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    Sep 5, 2011, 11:17 AM
    Why do my best friend and I have sex when we are drunk
    Me and my best guy friend always seem to kiss or do stuff or end up having sex every time we're drunk. We're a friendship where we're mean to each other but we're only messing around and we know it when sober, we're just quite close but when we're drunk, we tend to be really nice and can't keep our hands off each other. He's only just turned 19 and I'm 16, in college. I don't want a relationship and I know he doesn't but I want opinions on why it happens? I used to like him but I never told him and just let it to pass as a phase and it did pass, I only see him as a friend, I think. I'd just like to know why something happens between us every time we're drunk together? He's not really close to any other girls and only see's the girls that I bring out with me, maybe it's because I took his virginity about a year ago? Just help, I'm ranting on now!
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    Sep 5, 2011, 11:20 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by rantyperson1 View Post
    but I want opinions on why it happens? I used to like him
    Hello ranty:

    You still do.

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    Sep 5, 2011, 04:58 PM
    If he is not there do you have sex with other men you get drunk with ?

    Does he have sex with other women he gets drunk with.

    The easy fix, stop getting drunk
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    Sep 5, 2011, 05:15 PM
    Moved to relationship, it does not appear they want sex advice, they seem to have that down. It seems they have more of a drinking problem, or a relationship problem, that sex advice is not needed
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    Sep 5, 2011, 05:21 PM
    Neither of you can handle your liquor, and you shouldn't be drinking. Plus you are easy, a few drinks and have sex. It's the oldest game in the book. Get 'em drunk, and get 'em. Wise up. Stop getting drunk, no excuse for loose behavior.
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    Sep 5, 2011, 06:34 PM
    The reason you have sex when you're drunk is that your inhibitions are out the window when you're no longer in control of your own body. Which is what alcohol does.

    If you're not interested in him when you're sober, then you're not interested in him.

    One question. You seem to be suggesting that you drink often. How is that possible at 16 years of age, and how are you in college at your age?
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    Mar 11, 2012, 03:33 PM
    @Alty, if rantyperson1 lives in Britain then they very well could be in "college." "College" here is not the same as it is in the US, College is for 16-18/19 year olds here, and University is what we'd call your "College."

    @rantyperson1 you guys sound like you're in a relationship, are you sure you don't like him? X

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