[Zelda77]

I would really like guys opinions pleas?

[odinn7]

Can I say something here? I saw your other post asking about what guys like in a girl and now I see this one. I think you're worrying too much. All different things make women "hot" to different guys. I don't know you, don't know what you look like, but I am going to bet that you're worrying too much and all for the wrong reasons. Relax a little, live a little, be yourself... things will be OK. :)

[junebenitez]

You know what's the answer?? Capital CONFIDENCE. I'm telling you, it's both applicable to men and women. Be yourself but of course mind what you wear. Be simple yet elegant. That will make you pretty and hot.. here's a bit of advice, take a picture of yourself and put it somewhere you can see it or visit an online printing website, I suggest ***Link Removed***, and make it into a wall art. Every morning tell this to yourself "I'm beautiful and hot!" and that's confidence my friend. Don't worry too much okay?

[Alty]

I gave June an agree, and I do agree with most of his post, except the "mind what you wear. Be simple yet elegant. and tell yourself that you're beautiful and hot" part.

I do agree that confidence is the most attractive thing about anyone.

Before you ask, I'm not male, more important, I am a woman, and I know what attracts guys. How? I've been single, and I've been young, and I've been in the dating game.

I'm not gorgeous. I'm not ugly, but I know that if I walk into a crowded room, I won't be the prettiest girl there. But, I am the girl that can walk into a crowded room and get everyone's attention. Why? I'm confident. I know who I am, I'm happy with who I am, and I own it.

Being attractive has very little to do with how you actually look. I've met gorgeous people that become very unattractive when they open their mouths. They're either conceited, obnoxious, dumber then a post, or just plain annoying. They rely on their looks. Well, looks fade.

I've met people that aren't much to look at, but once you start talking to them, they become better and better looking. Their compassion, intelligence, and confidence, makes them hot.

Spend less time worrying about your outer appearance, and work on liking who you are, inside and out. Once you love yourself, you'll be the most gorgeous person in the world, just like the rest of us. :)