[jsaurabh8]

I was in a relationship around 2 years back, there was a girl and we were kind off happily living life.We used to hang out ,watch movies and were enjoying each other as a partner. I was a student 2 years back and was doing CA(Chartered Accountancy), due to my career I started shifting my focus a bit from her to my career but still I used to call her and meet her at regular interval but this made her angry every time. She started complaining about not giving time and not talking to her but as per me I was doing enough from my side. She became frustrated and finally she broke up with me. She made issues of such small things and I became the sole culprit of our breakup.

Nevertheless it was a breakup from her side but I was into a hope of getting her back. After around 2 months of our breakup I saw her with a guy and came to know that she's in another relationship , I felt as if someone has ruined me from inside, all my hopes were destroyed and I was feeling rejected. I called her her she said she does not want to talk about it any more, later on she started ignoring my calls and messages.. I used to call her whole night but there was no response from her side. However as time passed I gradually got over her but still I used to miss her, although I called her in between once or two and talked but nothing much happened.

Recently now almost after an year and half I completed my CA and started working in a private bank. It was 3 days back I got a message from her side and she wanted to talk. We again met and talked for almost and while talking I came to know that she is not in a relation anymore. I was happy and delightful and I thought everything could get back sooner, but it was today when I saw her with another guy in a shopping mall and they were kind off very happy and were laughing. Later on I called she said she does not wants to be with me as past is past and all feelings are gone. I don't know why she initiates a thing and when I get involved in it she backs out. Please help

[hidden123]

You're her safety net - when she's lonely or bored - she can count on you to be there.. Move on. I'm sorry if it sounds harsh...

[talaniman]

I agree with hidden, she was bored, and you were available. Now you know better and hopefully ignore her in the future.

Tough lesson to learn.

[vanheart]

Exes are exes. Period.

For that very reason.

Move on to better things.

Remember, she dumped you.

Don't be a fool. Put her out of your head.