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    PeaceFun95 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 25, 2011, 06:02 PM
    I'm so confused.
    Hey, I'm 16 :) So, in freshman year, I met this boy who was pretty awsome. He was checking me out the first day I entered 5th period :) We began talking to each other, flirting, etc. Second semester, I realized I liked him... a lot. I became so nervous around him, I ended up not talking to him as often as I use to :'( Then Sophomore year started, and I talked to him again. I still like him... How do I tell him? Part of me wants to, but the other part is afraid of rejection. You know, what if he doesn't like me back? I really like this guy. All my life I've said I wouldn't have my 1st kiss with ANYONE, until I found "the one". I've never wanted to kiss anyone before. But my friend had asked me if I would kiss my crush, and said yes, I would. But I think he likes me back; the way he looked when we talked for the first time in a long time, the random glances... Ugh! This is so frustrating, I begin blushing so hard, I feel like my head is stuck in a fireplace! :/ How do I tell him? How can I fix everything so we could at least be friends again? :confused:
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    Aug 25, 2011, 06:43 PM
    Just gather up the courage and tell him, there is no other way, and if you wait for him to make the first move, you might lose your chance and never get anything accomplish. Approach him and be prepared for rejection, rejection is not something to be afraid of, but instead it is an opportunity to learn something. No one succeeds at anything without first failing several times. Take a chance, you have nothing to lose, if he doesn't like you as more than a friend then a friend you should be, however you have the chance of him saying yes and maybe developing something more than a friendship, like a serious friendship ;).
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    Aug 25, 2011, 06:45 PM
    And he has the same feelings, But why do you have to tell him feelings, why can't you just, talk, and try to hang out when you can
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    Aug 25, 2011, 07:26 PM
    Try talking to him. Say hello. Get the friendship going again. See where it goes from there.
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    Aug 25, 2011, 10:30 PM
    Just talk to him again & take one day at a time.

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