[ivanilyich]

So she totally broke off all contact with me three weeks ago, out of the blue. A mutual friend of ours, I believe, was badmouthing me behind my back. They both cut off contact with me. Now, three weeks have passed and after being able to successfully contact her, she says that the guy she left me for is a total negligent ******* and during the past three weeks she was drugged and had a really horrible time. Yeah -_- so I think I can have her back now if I want to, but do I want to?

Those weeks without her were crazy but I guess it's true, girls are into those total ******* types who don't pay any attention to them. When I told her this, she said that maybe next time I should try to care less -_- (jokingly) Then when I asked her why she did this, she said she didn't want to put up with the drama of my reaction and then said that when she was down, that other guy was the first person that popped into her head so she went with it.

[reckless]

No. You shouldn't. She left you for another man once and she could easily do it again. She gave you excuses about being drugged up, and apparently goes out with other guys based on them being "the first person that popped into her head." Can you ever really trust her now?

She wasn't joking when she told you to care less. In fact, you should care so little that you stop giving her your attention and cut her out of your life.

[liz28]

Sometimes it is best to leave the past in the past. It is oblivious she isn't ready for what you have to dish out. So let her stay dealing with a guy who is going keep her drugged out for three weeks straight which I think is a made up story but who knows.

The fact remains that instead of turning to you when she supposedly felt down she turnt to someone else who popped in her head>>who does that? She does!

And for the record every females aren't into to bad boys. I know I would choose a gentlemen over a bad boy any day and will do it in a heartbeat.

So you say you can have her back if you can but the real question is do you really want her back just to have her turn it upside down again? I know I wouldn't.

[amicon]

Don't take her back-whatever the truth is-she dumped you and what's to say that's not going to happen again?

Move on and date ''normal'' people rather than flakes.

[texmade890]

Bro you don't want a girl like that a female that leaves you just like that and runs off with some low life . Just look at it this way what if it was your friend that had this problem and he came to you for advise .think about what you would tell him. Common sense would be to say man just move on and forget about her she did you wrong and you can't trust her again

[talaniman]

Should I take my ex girlfriend back?

Hell NOOOOO!!