[ciara3658]

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Disabled abandonment

I am a 53 y.o. disabled woman with many health issues. My boyfriend had a massive stroke 2 months ago. He was in hospital and then a rehab center for a month. I then brought him home to try to care for him by myself which is impossible. He is paralyzed on his left side completely. He needs total care 24/7. He is unable to stand walk or anything. He can feed himself but drops food a lot. He has a lot of mental issues including memory loss and confusion. He is in the {Center name removed} Ga although we live in Alabama. They are trying to force me to bring him home even though it takes 2 to 3 BIG men there to lift him and transfer him etc. I am disabled! I am only 5' 2 and there is no way I can lift a 6 ft 249 lb man! He had to be lowered to the floor twice when he was home and had to have 911 called to come help get him up. Now they are threatening me if I do not bring him home they will file ABANDONMENT charges. How have I abandoned him? I have been there at every hosp he has been in day and night. I am a student and school starts back in a few weeks. I CAN NOT be here 24/7. I am disabled and unable physically to care for him. We are waiting for SSI determination which may take a couple more months. Can they put me in jail for abandonment? His family has abandoned him, not me! They have done nothing to help through all this! NOTHING! We are not married! I am not capable to do what he needs. He needs round the clock care! HELP!

[ScottGem]

You can relinquish a POA if you want. But unless you signed something that assumes responsibility for him I don't think they can get you for abandonment. You would appear to have no legal responsibility for him.

Since you are a student, does your school have a law school? If so, check to see if they have a clinic. Many do. I think you need more legal advice then we can give you.