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breannasawders · Jul 13, 2011, 07:35 PM

I'm 14 and I had unprotected sex at the beginning of may but he was only in me for 2mins or less but he came when he was pulling out my periods have been late since but I have one for like 3 days and its gone I've been getting really bad cramps and feeling really sick to my stomach at night though could I be pregnant?

J_9 · Jul 13, 2011, 07:41 PM

Of course you could be pregnant. Why would you think otherwise?

Get a HPT and take it using first morning urine.

breannasawders · Jul 13, 2011, 07:42 PM

I don't have the money or the way to a store without mt dad finding out

J_9 · Jul 13, 2011, 07:43 PM

Then you are going to have to go to the doctor or planned parenthood.

breannasawders · Jul 13, 2011, 07:47 PM

Should I tell the guy that might be the dad or should I just wait till I know?

J_9 · Jul 13, 2011, 07:52 PM

You need to wait until you know for sure. Then you need to stop having sex until you are old enough to afford a baby.

breannasawders · Jul 13, 2011, 07:58 PM

I can afford a baby right now.. I have a job I make 550 a week

J_9 · Jul 13, 2011, 08:09 PM

Honey, you CAN'T afford a baby right now. I make almost more than that in one DAY and I am struggling with 2 kids.

At 14 your body is not ready to be pregnant. You are still growing. There are many things that could go wrong with you and/or the baby should you be pregnant right now.

Oh, I know... You're mature. Right? You know how many times I've heard that out of a teenager's mouth?

breannasawders · Jul 13, 2011, 08:11 PM

Well my boyfriend is a coalminner he just turned 18 and he got right in the coalmines and he makes about 900 a day

Fr_Chuck · Jul 13, 2011, 08:19 PM

Great, so now at 18, he can go to prison for rape since you are 14 and lose that great job, and be a sex offender the rest of his life. You can go on welfare and be a burden on soceity.

But of course at 900 dollars a day, he must own the mine since the average pay for a miner is a little less than 900.
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odinn7 · Jul 14, 2011, 08:43 AM

Something isn't adding up here. You're 14 but you make $550 a week. Your boyfriend is 18 and makes $900 a day coal mining. You make all this money yet you can't afford a HPT?

adviceishere · Jul 14, 2011, 12:03 PM

odinn7 you took the words right from my mouth!

How on earth can you not afford a pregnancy test? And how can you not get one without your dad finding out, you managed to have sex without him knowing. (assuming he doesn't know)