[Bamitzquestions]

Hi there's 3 guyz at school that I like although I'm preety big and I've asked 3 guyz out before and 2 said no and 1 said maybe how should I ask them I'm not really that confident and I don't know if they like me how do you tell if boyz do?

[talaniman]

How old are you? What grade are you in, and what is it you are asking them? Please clear up my confusion.

[new love]

How I know boys like me is they flirt back and the try and tell brave stories of them and if he said maybe he is not right for you

[HurtScorpio]

I would like to know how old you are as well. I must tell you a little secret - I am 36 years old and I have NEVER asked a boy or man out, Why? I think it is unappealling, aggressive, and it makes you appear desperate and needy. That is not to say that if you are interested in a boy you can not talk to the or be cutesy or compliment them on how they look or how you wer impressed by something they did or how you think they are smart. I never have chased a guy and would not do that because you will chase them away. Boys/men like a challenge. They like the thrill of the chase and if you just come up to them and are easily available what fun is that? Who wants something they can easily have? Isn't something more appealing when you have to work for it? Doesn't a guy seem more appealing when all the girls want him? Do you see what I am saying. Play hard to get. Be confident. Just because you are heavy does not mean you can't hold your head high and act like you are the best thing since sliced bread. Whatever you do don't be clingy, do not follow the guy you like around, and if he says "maybe" he may just mean no and not want to hurt your feelings. Then again, he may want to see your reaction. Act like you could care less and he may come to you and if not there are plenty other men. Good luck and give us more info. On your age please.