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    Abby181000 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 11, 2011, 10:05 PM
    My best friend is trying to break up me and my boyfriend?
    OK well I have this so called "friend" she went out with this guy and 2 months later I went out with him because they were friends and she told me she was completely over him... so me and him kissed and we were about to go out and then she found out and conwicedently we were all at the mall and she told me she hated me and she loves him! Then he walked over and we all got in a huge fight.. anyway, we were just friends again and everything was OK, she left and he tried to get back together with me! (he possibly is scared of her). We ended up going out and he broke up with me "because im too young" and now a month later he goes out with my so called "friend". ( I have been in love before and I knew I was in love with him!! Me and him are both single now.. how do I get him back??
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    Jun 11, 2011, 10:52 PM
    Well if you were her friend you shouldn't date the guy she dated no offense but friends don't date their friends bf's its just not right. So you brought this problem on yourself. So you shouldn't get him back because even though your friend said she didn't have feelings for him which everyone says after they break up with someone she did and you hurt her. You should try and repatch your friendship with her if it is not to late.
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    Jun 15, 2011, 07:07 AM
    I think that you shouldn't try to get back with him your relationship with your friend is more important than any guy... friends stick together, it was wrong of you to date him after your friend dated him, from my experinces every girl says that she's over a guy she broke up with him but honestly she's not!. you should try and fix up this mess with your friend..
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    Jun 29, 2011, 10:41 AM
    Wow, drama! There's a saying between men (boys, or whatever)... "Bros before hos". It's also an unwritten man-law that you don't go out with a friend's ex. Not sure if the same goes for women, but that situation destroys friendships. That's why we (men) avoid it at all costs.

    Of course, that also depends on how good of 'friends' you are with the other person. If you weren't really friends at all, then I guess it wouldn't really matter. If the friendship is a meaningful one, then forget the guy. What's the adage.. "There's plenty of fish in the sea." If you're in love with the guy, and he feels the same way, it will all work out in the end... it will find a way. Good luck to you.
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