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    xoxaznbby Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 6, 2011, 05:18 PM
    Why would a guy dump a girl if he still has strong feelings for her?
    So me and one of my closes guy friends dated he ended up dumping me and said it was hard to explain why he dose not want to be with me he still shows signs that he likes me by looking at me from a distance and talking about me to his friends some his friends told me that he had feelings for me still for sometime now but all my friends tell me that he told them he did not have any feelings for me what so ever and when my friends call him and he knows I am there he does not answer any personal questions about me and him so I was wondering if he had feelings for me and maybe still now why would he dump me??
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    Jun 6, 2011, 09:47 PM

    This sounds more like your friends pushing things rather than him, but its hard to say with all these other people in your business.

    Fact is he dumped you, so take that as a sign to leave the guy alone until he gets the guts to speak for himself directly to you.
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    Jun 11, 2011, 10:15 PM
    Well maybe he didn't want to hurt your guys friendship. Even though he could still love you maybe he doesn't want a relationship because if something did go wrong when you guys are dating he doesn't want to ruin your friendship.
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    Jun 19, 2011, 11:46 AM
    At the moment all the information you have is coming from a third party i.e.. Your friends, his friends.The problem when you get information like this, is the story will always be slighty different from the original,as information gets passed around, people tend to tell their own version of events, adding a little bit more on the end for effect,consequently when the information is given to you, it most certainly won't be 100% accurate.

    He finished your relationship,so I think you should wait until he approaches you again,(if he does) rather than listen to everything else that friends are telling you.

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