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Cupid411id · May 14, 2011, 07:15 PM

So I Text this guy that I had a major crush on buttt the opposite happen instead of texting me back to see if he had feelings for me he ignored my text so now it's over and I told myself I'm young I don't need love right now so anyway my question is that if you lik someone a lot but you relies it's not going to happen what can you do to get over what never happened my friends told me I should just date other people but no one at my school is instresting that's y the dude I was crushing on didn't go To my school so here I am sitting up in my room asking for help again :)

Homegirl 50 · May 14, 2011, 07:22 PM

How do you know he has ignored your text. Maybe he is away, or busy. Give him some time.

If he is ignoring it, you lick your wounds and move on. He is not the only guy in the world.
Is the guy you texted before and did not have the nerve to talk too when you saw him? Maybe he is being shy too.
Think of this as practice for the next person.

Cupid411id · May 15, 2011, 08:52 AM

Yeah same guy and when we seen each other I suck in my gut and just went up to him and we started talking but the second time we seen each other again all his friends were lik go up to him again but I was lik no cause I went up to him last time it's his turn .I don't want to be doing all the work for us to talk again but I think he is ignoring me because I text him after are last meet and he didn't text me then either the only thing I want from him is for him to tell me why we don't talk or why he didn't come up to me the last meet all my people saw him staring at me and smile every time I walked past him and saw his friend trying to get my attention to talk to him I don't know I just want closer I guess...

DoulaLC · May 15, 2011, 09:02 AM

I agree with Homegirl... maybe he is just shy. You could always take that step and go up to him again, and ask if he got your text, then start another conversation. Try not to get caught up in whose turn it is or isn't... that will only keep you waiting and wondering.

That your friends and his friends are noticing an attraction lets you know there might be something worth taking the chance for. Good luck!

Homegirl 50 · May 15, 2011, 10:12 AM

Don't play the "it's your turn game" When you see him speak to him. It may be the thing to put him more at ease.
He seems to be shy, so cut him some slack. You are also coming out of your shyness by making a move to speak to him. If you do nothing, he does nothing and you both are out of luck.
A closed mouth does not get fed.

Cupid411id · May 15, 2011, 10:34 AM

Well OK so do I not text him but when if I were to see him again(hopefully soon) just talk to him I really don't want to come off as being a stalker or make myself look desperate but he is my first big crush sooo I'm going to take you guys advice to heart I'm a good listener and I do take good advice :)

Homegirl 50 · May 15, 2011, 10:37 AM

Speaking to someone is not stalking them, you are acknowledging his presence. Nothing wrong with that.

amicon · May 15, 2011, 11:02 AM

Good luck!

Cupid411id · May 15, 2011, 11:18 AM

Thanxs I guess I'll wait till I c him again and I'll talk to him but the whole texting thing I'll wait and see if he texts me back cause he is bound to c the last Mssg I left him. Just can't wait for are sport season comes back then and their ill c him he's also on the football team so I'll see him probably sooner I don't know but what ever happens happens...

im NOT happy:( · Jul 9, 2011, 04:54 PM

I have a simliar problem.I've never met this guy & I can't stop thinking of him.He caused a lot of drama for me.I should hate him.Butt I don't feel that way towards him.He has made a lot of effort trying to get my attention.He's the only guy who's make a real effort to come & see me.He hurt me & I still think of him.*Sighs* I wish I knew what he really feels for me:S