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nohakhan · May 11, 2011, 09:34 AM

I need to divece my husband because of his stingyness and his bad behave with me and my kisd I have to work for me and my kids needs. It has been 10 years I'm seviving in this situetion I had tried a lot to change him by tellig hadeethd by quran, but no use now I have problem that my family is telling me to don't live him for kids but now I have nothing for him in my heart because of he abuse me phisically and menteally manytime. Now I fell that's it . I want to leve him I have to work for our needs hand my husband has 2 shops and good incom but for us he didn't have any thing except shelter please help me what can I do

ScottGem · May 11, 2011, 05:07 PM

First its not a good idea to piggyback your question on someone else's. This can lead to confusion. You should start a new thread. So I've moved your question to its own thread.

Get an attorney and file for divorce.

DoulaLC · May 11, 2011, 06:37 PM

If he has abused you, you end the marriage. Does your family know of the abuse? If so, shame on them for encouraging you to stay where you and the children could be harmed.

You are unhappy, have tried all that you can think of to make things better, and are being abused. This is not what you want your children to grow up thinking a marriage should be like.

As ScottGem said, seek counsel about obtaining a divorce. Hopefully you will be able to find a family member who is supportive of your decision. If not, perhaps a close friend.