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xnicoleilyx · May 2, 2011, 10:45 AM

I know before you all start going on that yes I am a teenager and all teen's go through this but yeah I'm 14 and was recently dating this boy who was 15 we had been friends for at least a year before he finally asked me out (I liked him for a very long time) and when he did I felt on top of the world like everything had finally got better, he also seemed a lot better in himself as before he always seemed sad, well at least 2 months later it was our easter holidays and he went to his Dad's for a week and I wasn't able to see him at all, we kept in contact and he told me loads of times that he missed me and loved me, it was when he got back I saw him as soon as possible meeting him out with some friends everything was fine(this was the Monday) by Wednesday we met up again and he was all over me saying he loved me not leaving me alone and I thought it was really sweet, but that night he stayed round his friends house and we were texting most the night and arranged to meet the next day with some friends , so the next day I went down there and he completely ignored me as if I didn't excist I thought it was rather weired and asked him if he was okay, he just said he was in a mood.. and then he went home and I later got a text saying "i think it's best if we are friends", I asked him why he thought we should break up but he didn't give me a reason he just replied saying "i can't say sorry" so I said okay.. then I went home as I felt very uncomfortable there and apparently as soon as I left he came back out :/, after he broke up with me he kept on texting me and that weekend he rung me asking to go out.. but I was at a family BBQ so I couldn't I found it rather weired though :/, anyway not even a week after we had broken up he has a new girlfriend a girl who was supposed to be my best friend I know he has the right to move on as we are no longer together I just thought it was all a bit soon so I flipped out at him saying stuff I really didn't mean I felt so bad afterwards.. I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I apologised and he accepted my apology... I was asked to meet up with everyone that weekend so I went and both him and his new girlfriend where there all over eachover I just tried to hold my head up high as if I wasn't botherd when really I was crushed inside, but every time I looked over he seemed to be staring at me like all of the time and I just melted every time.. which made my heart hurt even more, If he is happy that's all that matters but he has confused me so much... what do you think? Do you think he will get back with me :/ ( also this may have nothing to do with it but he asked me to do sexual stuff but I said no as I wasn't ready and he said okay and he respected that about me, but his new girlfriend has a bit of a rep as a slag so could this be a reason)

sharper11 · May 2, 2011, 11:17 AM

Thanks for letting us know your age up front (no joke, it helps).

In my opinion, your ex BF, is not someone you should keep your hopes up about. I would get him AS FAR out of your life as possible (and with that, your "best friend" also).

This may seem dramatic, but if this guy is dating your best friend a few days after breaking up with you, then I get the impression he doesn't care, and your best friend is breaking a MAJOR friend rule.

For most teen boys, relationships are not that serious. This is my opinion based on observation and experience.

BTW, when you post in the future, please use periods (it was kind of tough to read)

talaniman · May 2, 2011, 12:04 PM

I think you are right, he wanted something you weren't ready to give. Now that you know, you don't have to have a bad reputation. Keep you head held high, and keep it real like you already are doing.

amicon · May 3, 2011, 01:33 AM

Be proud of yourself for doing the right thing,and not giving into his 'sexual stuff' thing.

I think your so called best friend should be considered an ex-friend,;leave him in the past,he's not good boyfriend material.

xnicoleilyx · May 12, 2011, 01:25 PM

Me and my ex have been broken up for about 2 weeks now, and he already has a new girlfriend she is the complete opposite to me, I'm a curvy girl and she is stick thin :/, I wouldn't consider myself huge but comparing to her I look like an WHALE!. I have known her since I was little but me and her have never got on about 2 years ago she used to bully me but I got over her and stopped talking to her for a while but recently we started talking again then she goes and does this goes out with my ex I personally think its wrong:/(this is my opinion).. well stupidly I know I shouldn't but I have been trying to make myself look more like her! So hopefully he might take me back :/
Because after all he did dump me for her.
I still Really like him even though I shouldn't I can't go a day without thinking about him...
His new girlfriend doesn't like him... her boyfriend dumped her the day before her and my ex got together, she even admitted to everyone that she doesn't like my "ex".

So I'm not sure what I'm asking :/
I needed to get out how I felt.. maybe if you could give me some advice that would be great :D

hidden123 · May 12, 2011, 01:31 PM

I'm sorry you are going through this - seeing your ex with your "nemesis" must be horrible.. It sounds like both of them are on a rebound..

Does your Ex know how you feel about that girl? He might be doing it to hurt you.. I doubt it will last based on what you said.. Be strong. Don't try to be like her. Try to ignore both of them instead and don't let them see that they got to you.. Focus on positive things in your life and remember that you deserve better than that..

xnicoleilyx · May 12, 2011, 01:44 PM

Thank you so much :), I have been trying to look like it doesn't bother me when I am out with them :), even if it does hurt a lot!
And I never told him about her... as I don't really like that part of my past :/
Once again thank you so much <3

mmresd · May 12, 2011, 02:19 PM

Trying to look like her is not a good idea. You are your own person and you have your own identity. You should be yourself and if he doesn't like you then he is not the one for you. It sucks for this to be happening to you, but rather trying to get him back, I would suggest you practicing No Contact with him and attempting to move on. It would be better for you to find someone that likes you for who you are and doesn't dump you for eye candy. After what he has done to you, do you really still want to be with him?

Good Luck,
Javi