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    Apr 30, 2011, 02:58 PM
    i like him,i think he likes me,am single he is single so why doesn't he ask me out ?
    well there is this guy that I knew for 2month now , we have been chatting and we met there is chemistry between us! I like sooo much I even think that I might be in Love with him! he seemed that he likes me too then he told me that he would have asked me out if he is not busy with his studies and his graduation! And he told me that he doesn't want to invest his feelings in relationship when he's not ready for it! But as it seems he still wants to be close to me! we still talking like we used to! I don't know what he really wants from.. I'am lost! Please help meeeee
    P.S he has been single for 2years "he told me that i'am drop dead sexy and gorgeous" ^^
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    Apr 30, 2011, 04:55 PM

    You seem to like him a lot more than he likes you. How old are you both??
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    May 1, 2011, 12:28 AM

    'He told me he doesn't want to invest his feelings in a relaationship when he's not ready'.

    There's your answer.
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    May 1, 2011, 08:14 AM
    I'am 19years old and he's 24years old and we are both in college!
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    May 1, 2011, 08:23 AM

    You can either take his word for it or move on. His word is that he's interested in you, but not yet ready for a serious relationship. Which means that you're going to have to wait for him to be ready, but there's no guarantee that he will ever be ready for you.

    The question really is, how long are you willing to wait around?
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    May 1, 2011, 08:26 AM

    Talaniman Rule - Never get stuck on someone thats not as stuck on you. Thats crazy!

    Talaniman Rule - Never assume someone has the same feelings as you do.

    Talaniman Rule - Never give your heart to a stranger until they have proved that they deserve it, and know what to do with it.

    No matter what else he says and does, you cannot ignore that he told you that he wasn't ready for a relationship. That's enough to not get carried away, and be cautious of protecting yourself, and your heart.
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    May 1, 2011, 11:28 AM
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    well I don't Know but I don't want to lose him as friend ! But you know I'am so picky in guys I don't know if I would like someone else the way that I like him!
    Thank you ^^
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    May 1, 2011, 11:31 AM
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    I do my best to protect my heart but you know sometimes it just happen and we can't control it !
    thank you ^^
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