[jordanbms]

Okay me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months.. I like him a lot ,but he's been acting all different. He doesn't talk to me anymore , he doesn't get near me, and he just looks like he's not interested in me anymore .I asked him if he still liked me and he said "yeah ".. but then later ,his bestfriend(oh by the way his best friend likes me since long time ago so I don't know if he's just saying that to get me and him to breakup) told me that my boyfriend told him that he was getting less interested in me ,I asked him that too and he said those were all lies .but he acts like he really is losing interest... but there's another problem.. I sorda started to like his best friend a bitt.. but I still like my boyfriend.. but I'm just tired of giving him chances on changing.. (he's been acting like that for about 2months) help me please I don't know what to do..

[sahar.]

If he is not interested why do you waste your time living with him , if he likes you he should show you how interested he is.. I don't know about his best friend , maybe he got fall in love with you or something like that or maybe your boyfriend wants to test you how deep is your feeling... tell him that what is your feeling now and tell him about his behavior.. he should make it clear! :) wish you all the best

[talaniman]

I would be very cautious of this friend of his, no telling what he is feeding your boyfriend.

You know its up to partners to get facts, and not be satisfied or just put off by statements and it sounds like he is not giving you all the facts so talk and be specific with your questions and don't take one line answers for facts.

Don't you think its strange you tell him what his friend is saying behind his back and he brushes them aside as lies by his friend? Yes something is going on you need to know, so find out, and protect your heart until you do. Two months is a long time to wonder what's up with a partner, and stay away from his friend. I smell a rat, don't you??