[tekdawgs]

She broke up with me about 10 days ago after 15 month saying she loved me to death but she didn't think she was in love with me any more. I always have tried to tell her how beautiful she was and everything I could possible say. Now she's going to counseling and her counselor is telling her to stay away from me. I really want to be with her and be in here life what can I do. She hardly wants to talk and is always negative. We lived together for these 15 months and we both in love did everything together. Please help

[chuff]

Do you mind if I ask why she was in counceling? Is it related to you? Even indirectly?

The reason I ask is because if the councelor told her to leave you it sounds like he/she feels you're a bad influence over her.

She obviously has some behaviors or addictions she's trying to overcome it sounds like you don't fit that category for positive reinforcement or stability.

[tekdawgs]

Well she said it was personal problems but it was to deal with our relansionship and help it we were going to go together at first. The reason she told he to leave me alone is so we could get over each other but this is a very special girl. Im not like of those guys to just fall in love very easily and this girl did it for me she is like one in a billion. She's not very well off also and I paid for everything also she didn't even have a car down here at school. I just feel lost and hopeless. I wanted her back and am willing to do anything

[s_cianci]

If her counselor is really telling her that then this doesn't sound like a good situation. I think you should cut your losses and move on. She's taking the advice of an unscrupulous counselor and you don't want to be mixed up with someone like that. You yourself say that she hardly ever wants to talk and is always negative. What kind of relationship is that? Not a very good one. You're better off without her.