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    #1

    Jan 22, 2007, 11:37 AM
    What do I do?
    I've bin going out with my boyfriend for two years with two break ups in between but not for long. When I joined a new college I got interested in a boy and I'm still interested in him. I did have a small relation ship with this boy but I went back to my boyfriend because of the situation. This boy has recently told me he still likes me and would like to be with me one day. He rings me and that makes me like him even more. My boyfriends questioning me about what's going on but he doesn't no anything for sure and I just want to know what to do, do I dump my current boyfriend and go out with the boy I really like or do I stay with my current boyfriend? My current boyfriend is really over protective and doesn't really like me talking to other boys. But the boy I like people see him as a loser because they don't see the side I see of him. What do I do? :confused:
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    Jan 22, 2007, 03:32 PM
    Make up your mind.
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    Jan 22, 2007, 03:34 PM
    You need to follow your heart. Who makes you happiest? How long have you known this new person? Remember grass is not always greener on the other side.

    Joe
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    #4

    Jan 22, 2007, 03:48 PM
    Drop both of them and figure out what you want. You are using both guys by what you are doing.
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    #5

    Jan 22, 2007, 03:50 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman
    Make up your mind.
    Well I had to spread it but Tal your answers are always the best. In 7 words or less you always nail it. This time it only took 4.
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    #6

    Jan 22, 2007, 07:08 PM
    It is that simple. Drop the original or both, you need to focus on school and yourself. I think you just need some time as a single person with no guy for a while.
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    Jan 22, 2007, 07:34 PM
    Neither of them.

    You obviously aren't really into either of them or ready / mature enough for a relationship with either.

    Stop using them and get yourself sorted out.

    You need to do this alone, and not with another guy.

    Jumping from boy to boy and back again isn't a good idea!

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