[ind.av]

Hi all..
Its kind of weird to me but I get orgasm every time when my guy lick it,I even enjoy foreplay a lot but I never feel any thing while having sex.. its absolutely nothing..! Some times it becomes very frustrating to me.. I really want to feel it.. Please help

[adviceishere]

Try different positions, the only time I can orgasm is when I'm on top, your in control and you can feel a lot more.

[Cat1864]

Due to posting restrictions on the Adult Sexuality board, please give your age.

[ind.av]

I am 23

[ind.av]

Thanks a lot for the answer.. We have even tried different positions but it didn't work & more over it pains a lot when it hits my walls deep inside rather than giving me some pleasure.. Its completely numb inside every time.. :( :(

[adviceishere]

Have you seen a doctor about this?

[Cat1864]

Thank you.

When there is pain from intercourse you should talk to your doctor. It could be a how your boyfriend and you fit together, but it could also be a symptom of other problems.

When you masturbate do you have any problems? Have you tried using a vibrator or other toy to find where the sensitive/painful spots are?

As for climaxing from penetration alone, you are not alone. Many women have the same problem. Some find that using fingers or a vibrator (or other adult toy) for direct stimulation of the clitoris can help them achieve an orgasm.

Main thing to remember is that is nothing that you or your boyfriend are doing wrong. No fault, no blame, just the way we women are built.

Experimenting to find what works for the two of you can be a lot of fun. Be honest though about what feels good and what doesn't work at all.

Good luck.

[ind.av]

Thank you so much for the reply Cat.. I have never tried sex toys but at the same time I don't get pain when it comes to masturbating or fingering.. It only pains when it hit my walls and end up giving me NO pleasure.. I'm now 23 & I think it's a right time to consult a doctor now.. Thanks again.. :) :)

[ind.av]

No not yet..

[jenniepepsi]

I have seen this type of question before, and I always prefer to ask before anything else, were you molested as a child? Or raped at any time in your life?
An association between violence and sex is the biggest cause of pain in the vaginal cavity, as well as not being able to orgasm during intercourse. I have yet to overcome this problem myself (I was raped when I was 11) and clitoral stimulation is the only way I can orgasm. But it is getting easier, the pain is gone.

If this is not the case, than I will defferr to the other posters who have more experience in other situations and problems. Good luck hon!

[star2011]

Same thing happens with my wife.but when she comes on top of me with penetration she gets orgasm.try this position