I had the same problems as you have
It was always dificult with me to speak with girls because I was very lowconfident
How to change this?
Well its quite simple but also hard
1. U have aboslutly NOTHING to loose. And that is what you must get into your had.
2. Just be relaxed and be yourself
3.When you have nothing to do observe the girls, how they act what they like
4.If u have nothing smart to say just be quiet, normal like you would be with your firend or joke.
5.Jokes are very affective if you are in a tough situation but I don't mean jokes as knock, knock,. style. What I mean by jokes is that you act funny.
Just don't think about it say it
U have nothing to loose!
Important thing is to try, every (begining) is a hard one.
But if rest of the population is doing it OK than why shouldn't u?
Are you different? I don't think so. You are just a normal guy like everbody else.
Good Luck!
Andrej
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