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Jenta · Mar 20, 2011, 06:45 PM

Was seeing a man for 4 months. I found out he was doing a few things to me behind my back. He had lied about his age, he had another women he was spending time with. He never took me on dates,I just felt hidden. It all began to add up. I did confront him and of course he denided it all. So a few days a go I sent him a text and it said " I just wanted to let you know that our friendship is not working out for me and I am sick of your hot and cold behavior and there are plenty of men who would love to be seen with me and have me as a friend. We had a good ride lets leave it at that and take care." He replied he was speechless and then we had a text war and I asked him to talk to me me and he told me he did not want to say anything he would regret. I did text him asking if we can talk like adults. But now he is ignoring me.

My question is is he going to ignor me forever and I will never be able to get any answers? Or will he come around? I should not even care but I want to tell him what I know and how he made me feel. The reason why I sent it in a text is because that's all we did is text when we communicated we never spoke on phone. Will he come around eventually and get a hold of me? If he never wanted to talk to me again wouldn't he tell me to leave him alone? Which I am and I do not even know why I want to talk to him, closure I guess.
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amicon · Mar 20, 2011, 11:46 PM

You get closure by realising that this is a dead end,then start moving on with your life.

This guy's a liar and a j**k,so you had a lucky escape.

talaniman · Mar 21, 2011, 08:30 AM

Don't let him keep the door open, close it now and keep it closed by stopping the texting, and searching for the truth from a liar. Ignore him, and disappear, as who needs all that drama distracting you from what's important in your life?

Let it go. You have already told him this friendship ain't working for you.

adviceishere · Mar 21, 2011, 08:56 AM

Originally Posted by ;

We had a good ride lets leave it at that and take care.

Is this more like a power war? You basically ended it at that line and now you want him to get in touch, can't you see what he just did? He has now turned the tables and is now the one calling the shots on who dumps who! Leave it at that and move on...