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    Mar 17, 2011, 10:14 AM
    When is it time to break up?
    I've been in a relationship with a 24 year old and I am 31 years old we have been together for 3 years. At first he told me he was 27 then I came to find out his real age after 7 months. He is real close to his 25 year old brother so he goes to him all the time even about our relationship. He even tells his ex girlfriend about our relationship as well. I feel like I want to make this work but it seems like he does not want to let go of his past. I feel like I am in this relationship on my own. I do tell him it bothers me but all I have been asking myself lately is: Is it time to break up?
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    Mar 17, 2011, 11:09 AM

    I think you answered your own question-you're in this relatioship on your own.

    My guess would be that he is rather an immature 24,and the age difference means you're not on the same page.

    Have you discussed the problems,and if so,what's his take on it?
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    Mar 17, 2011, 07:26 PM

    If you are unhappy tell him. If it can't be resolved, then maybe it is time to leave.

    One would hope he talks to you as much as he talks to others, but then, maybe your ages are further apart than you think. I don't know, but I do know that couples either work together, or grow apart.
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    Mar 19, 2011, 11:27 AM
    I feel if you have to ask that question, it's only a matter of time before the inevitable happens. :-\
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