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    Mar 13, 2011, 10:41 AM
    Why did my lover stop having sex with me?
    I have been married for 5+ years and with my now husband for 18 years , he is a great man, successful, caring and handsome. I meet my lover in July last year and we started a relationship , he is slightly less handsome than my husband, blue collar , but I am very attracted to him, our intimate relationship is like nothing I have ever experienced , he is going through a difficult divorce and has recently told me that our relationship needs to be put on hold while he deals with this problem, is he just not into me anymore and unattracted to me, I'm really having difficulty dealing with his sudden withdrawal of intimacy
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    Mar 13, 2011, 10:51 AM

    Wow! Poor you!

    Karma is a b****
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    Mar 13, 2011, 11:12 AM
    Had to spread the rep Advice, but you put in it a nutshell quite approrpriately.

    Herman, I think you have answered your own question. Your lover is going through a divorce, he's not into you anymore, and he is no longer attracted to you.
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    Mar 13, 2011, 11:14 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Jake2008 View Post
    Had to spread the rep Advice, but you put in it a nutshell quite approrpriately.

    Herman, I think you have answered your own question. Your lover is going through a divorce, he's not into you anymore, and he is no longer attracted to you.
    Dido jake! :)
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    Mar 13, 2011, 01:50 PM

    Well that's the way the cookie crumbles;how do you think your husband would feel if he were to find out about your extramarital exercises?
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    Mar 13, 2011, 03:12 PM
    I pity your husband.

    He's successful, caring and handsome, yet you cheat on him..

    In regards to your lover, he's through with you, he was going through a tought time and used you..
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    Mar 14, 2011, 08:22 AM
    As someone who is severely against Adultery, I'm wondering whether it's my place to stick my one-sided nose in. But finish it with your lover and talk to your husband before it's too late, and you lose a decent, loyal man.


    Xx Dani G
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    Mar 14, 2011, 01:49 PM

    This post needs to be moved to ADULTERY, OR PSYCHO'S

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