[Donzela]

When I was 3+ my boyfriend set me up, he stole my house key and send 2 people to my house while I was asleep to beat me up so that he can get ride of the baby!! And every time I think of it I get scared, threatened even start to panic. Some times I get scared during night time and I don't know what to do. Please someone help me I am still very scared!!

[grammadidi]

Did you go to the police? If not, that would likely be the first step. If nothing else, you should get a restraining order against him. Do you live alone? Can you afford a security alarm system of any kind or are you on a limited income? Even on a limited income there are some inexpensive alarms you can put on your doors and/or windows. Ask around at different stores; look up some places in the phone book for some ideas/estimates. Also, ask neighbours to keep their eye out for you? If there is anyone you are close to nearby you might even be able to use something as simple as a baby monitor.

You have to do all you can to protect you and your unborn child while taking the power from him and empowering yourself. A battered women's shelter should be able to give you some valuable advice and support, too. Don't be afraid to call them!

Hugs, Didi

[sumsum0192]

Men that go to jail that hurt women "pregnant" women especially there's people out there that pay for you to move moving expenses and all that anything that would be helpful to u... Talk to a dr about your nitemares other mental sychological issues that may have occurred from that tramtic expierense sounds to me you should do what you can to get the hell out of there away from them if its you leaving with just the clothes on your back to keep you and unborn baby safe theirs stuff for victims of that kind of stuff call around!

[bit_exhausted]

Police? That is a crime! If you miscarry due to being beaten, that is murder. I highly suggest you ring the police.