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    Mar 4, 2011, 08:13 AM
    I need some really good advice please help!
    So I'm 17 never had unprotected sex and my fiancé pulls put every time. My period has always been abnormal but not as bad as this month, this month was a short I'm thinking maybe that's why? I had two heavy spotting after entercourse and that was it no period or anything. I am not on birth control or any thing of that sort. Any advice?
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    Mar 4, 2011, 08:18 AM

    Pregnancy is a possibility as the withdrawal method should never be considered a form of birth control.

    You say that you have never had unprotected sex. Does this mean you are using a condom every time? Even condoms have a failure rate and that rate is higher if the condom is not used correctly.
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    Mar 4, 2011, 08:28 AM
    Yes we always use a condom. And we make sure it's all in there every time. This is really scaring me I've been stressing about it all week.
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    Mar 4, 2011, 08:32 AM

    Honey, if you aren't mentally, physically, emotionally and financially ready to be a mother, please quit having sex.

    I was married, not ready for children, so I was on the pill AND using a condom. I got pregnant not once, but twice. Both of those children have now given me grandchildren.

    I also went through chemotherapy for cancer. I was told that it would make me sterile so I didn't use any form of birth control. A few years later I got pregnant. That child is now 9 years old.

    The only form of birth control that is 100% effective is abstinence.
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    Mar 4, 2011, 08:46 AM
    I just don't know what could be wrong with me because this is the second time this happened. No period but spotting. Could it be streas? And not having sex is sometimes easier said then done.
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    Mar 4, 2011, 08:47 AM
    Stress.
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    Mar 4, 2011, 08:49 AM

    It could be stress. Stress does strange things to our bodies. You can take a HPT to put your mind at ease.

    Yes, not having sex is easier said than done, but parenthood lasts forever.
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    Mar 4, 2011, 08:55 AM
    I was planning on doing that this after noon.
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    Mar 4, 2011, 08:55 AM
    I was planning on doing that this after noon.
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    Mar 4, 2011, 08:56 AM

    It's best to take a HPT first thing in the morning using first morning urine. It's more accurate that way.
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    Mar 4, 2011, 09:02 AM
    I've been told that. I also began to ride horses and just being a little more active like I use to be. Could that mean anything?

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