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    Feb 26, 2011, 01:39 AM
    How to leave a sociopath
    Any advice for a gay guy(me) involved in fifteen year clandestine sexual relationship with a cop who I believed for years to be a confused and in denial bisexual. Found otba few months ago he had gotten married to a woman I know bto be an ivy leaguebgraduate from a wealthy family. This confirmed to me his disorder. I've chosen to keep mum to keep from becoming a missing person. As a hi ranking nypd lt.I'm sure he could get away with anything. More alarming is ms my decision to stay. What is this hold on me? Help!!
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    Feb 26, 2011, 03:35 AM
    Sociopath? Disorder?
    You say NOTHING about what you are so afraid of or what makes him a sociopath, or what disorder he has (his marriage certainly doesn't)? Or why you think he would kill you if you left him? Because he's Italian and a cop? How do you know he doesn't think he'd lose his job, be ostracized, and so on? Please. Clarify your reasoning.
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    Feb 26, 2011, 07:26 AM
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    Because he's Italian
    Italian? Did I miss something? I read it as though he as a NYPD lieutenant.
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    Feb 28, 2011, 08:57 PM
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    Oops. Sorry, all Italians.
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