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    lalala1234 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 18, 2011, 12:45 PM
    I have a boyfriend...
    I have a boyfriend who I met at work over three years ago & I love him. Since we worked together we have both been transferred due to promotions. I DON'T WANT TO break up with him. I am currently in a position in management, but I like someone who is another part of management, but higher than me. It's not like I want to be with him, but I'm just so interested in him. How can I get him off my mind? It's not fair to my boyfriend, but I am just so attracted to him, and so interested. He's very flirty and he acts different around me than he does around some of the other people at work. Therefore, its hard to just try and forget! Because I have so much fun with him when I'm at work, and I think he has fun with me too. What should I do?
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    Feb 18, 2011, 12:55 PM
    The love is only for the first one... all the fun and the happyness are with him
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    Feb 18, 2011, 10:03 PM

    You stay within the boundaries of good behavior, or you break up with your boy friend.

    Honesty is the difference between a good person, and a lying, cheating scumbag.
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    Feb 25, 2011, 02:55 PM
    If you love your boyfriend, don't pursue the other guy. It is seriously that simple. So what, "you think about him", big deal. What is it about him that is worth giving up your relationship?

    If you are willing to throw your relationship away to go for this guy, than the relationship isn't worth keeping. You wrote "I DON'T WANT TO break up with him" <--that statement answered your question.
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    Feb 25, 2011, 02:55 PM
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    Harsh, but SPOT ON
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