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    wizzyqueen2003 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 17, 2011, 04:34 PM
    do i move out or stay for the time being
    okay I'm 21 will be 22 in may my dad claims he has been helping me because I'm living with him... we split bills like he said apart from the rent he pays my phone, insurance for car bill.
    Rent 840 (half is 420)
    Phone bill 60
    insurance 60
    420+60+60= 540.
    But I deposit 700 to his account every month which is my part. Now he is complaining that since I get more I should be putting more money in his account the most interesting part, he promised to send me back to Africa if I don't do what he says (I'm a resident, been here since 2008).I'm tired of hearing his mouth. What can I do? Please
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    Feb 17, 2011, 04:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by wizzyqueen2003 View Post
    ... what can i do? please
    Move out or wait for him to evict you. Your choice.
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    Feb 18, 2011, 03:18 AM
    He can't send you anywhere but out his door.
    I'm sorry your own father resents that you make more money than he does, but is there more to this story? Shopping, cleaning, laundry, TV time, computer, messiness, noise, eating all the food (and who pays for that)?
    Many times young people don't even notice that they have taken over a space and are noisy slobs who wolf down all the food. I'm not saying you are! Just that you might want to ask him if there's anything else bothering him about you being there.
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    Feb 19, 2011, 04:21 PM
    I appreciate your advice, and to answer you joy.. I don't eat much at home cause I'm hardly at home cause I go to work from work to school, I make sure there is food in the house for him to eat I get home at 10:00 but still make him dinner, so whatever food he buys in the house its for him. All I eat is snacks.and I don't like dirt either so I clean up the house my room, his room, the living room on my off days.my laptop is not using internet it I use starbucks wifi or school wifi. I don't have friends so I never bring anyone to the house. I'm just tired I'm not saying I'm perfect but I do most thing a good child will do.

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