[LightCross]

Ok first allow me to describe the situation.So there is this girl I like in my school, we have known each other for 1 month+ and yeah eventually I fell for her. We can talk and communicate just good, she responds fine, plus we have lot of things in common. I plan to confess to her before the end of this month, however I need to confirm about something.
First, I don't know whether she already has boyfriend or not, and of course I want to hear it from her directly
So I was wondering if you guys could give me any suggestion on :
1 How to tell my feelings to her and show her I respect her, by this I mean proper wording and polite, because I am one kind of guy who not really smart at picking words so I need some help on 'edit' on which words and in what manner I should tell her my feeling withou making her feel uncomfortable
2. Should I find out whether she already has a guy or not before I confess to her or should I go for it and find it out at same time when I confess
Thank you before an help would be very welcomed and appreciated:)

[talaniman]

"Do you have a boyfriend?".

If its yes,

"lucky guy"

If its NO,

"Would you like to go out sometimes?".

Go from there. If things go well, confess in a year, until then have a great time getting to know her.

[adviceishere]

Yes keep it simple the more you plan it in your head the less likely it is to come out of your mouth at rehersed. Ever been in trouble with your mother and you've a huge excuse planned out? Lol never comes out that way does it? LOL

[mmresd]

I agree with talaniman. Go tell her how you feel, keep it simple, and keep in mind that the worse thig that can happen is she saying no, which will leave you right where you are now... So nothing to lose.

Good luck,

Javi