[justgowithit]

I know this girl from a social club in college for a couple month, we go to different universities in a city we are attracted to each other. After a bit I asked her out, and we go on a date. During the date I confirmed that she is attracted to me and we had a great time. I followed up afterwards too. We both have very busy schedules, so we can only met on Saturdays. For the past three weeks after the date, we both were busy with thing, but during this time I don't get any contact from her, when I contact her (which is about once a week to check up on how she is doing), we have good conversations. At the same time I am drawing a blank she doesn't really talk about meeting again, but I am pretty sure she will go somewhere with me if she have time. I don't know what she want with this. I don't know if this is going no where, or is it just a series of bad timing.

[Alty]

Why not ask her how she feels?

If you're both in school then it's likely that she's just busy with school, studying, exams, papers, etc. Does she also work?

Come right out and ask her if she's interested in going on another date. A lot of times girls will pretend to be busy if they don't want to go on a second date with a guy, in hopes that he'll just give up and she won't have to hurt his feelings. That could be what's going on, or she could really just be busy.

The only way to know what's happening is to ask her.

[I wish]

Sounds like she's not as interested in you as you might think. Seems more like she placed you in the friends zone.

Because of that, if you really want to see her, then you're going to have to take more iniative to get her out.

But once you do meet up in person, it's probably best to clear things up to see where you both stand.