[Shybliss18]

Okay well a few months ago me and one of my guy friends got into a little confrontation. We weren't yelling at each other. We were just casually talking. He was telling me that he wanted nothing to do with me and didn't want me as a girlfriend (Which I didn't care about that) and didn't want me to be friends with me or anything. When he was telling me this stuff he kept hesitating and his jaw would clench every time when he said something about not wanting to be my friend. I felt hurt, crushed, and betrayed. I walked away telling him fine. After those months I felt sad and depressed. I really did like him but it wasn't my fault because he kept giving me signals that he likes me but when I asked him he would say he doesn't like me or he just wasn't sure. Then we began talking a little bit again at the end of last month and were part of a group project. This guy in our group would just try to flirt with me but my guy friend didn't like it. I could tell because his jaw would clench and he would just look really angry and pissed off. He always wore these sunglasses all the time so it was hard to really tell how he was feeling. Then he started flirting with me a little bit teasing me in a joking way and stuff like that but it was only a couple of times and one time he touched my lower back with his knee when we were sitting down in our desks. I was sitting in front of him when he did that. I moved up a little bit arching my back sitting up straight for about 2 minutes when I went back into the same position sitting down his knee wasn't there anymore. Now I wounder if he is just doing this because he is a flirt but he always kisses this girl in front of me. Every time he sees me walking past them he would immediately kiss this other girl. So far this week he has been doing it every morning before school and it is making me jealous. Is he trying to make me jealous?? Has he always liked me from the beginning?? Does he even like me at all?? Did he even want to say all those mean things that he told me a few months ago??

[adviceishere]

He doesn't sound like a nice guy to me one bit! Sounds like he doesn't want you but he also doesn't want anyone else to have you either, he knew you liked him and he wanted to keep it that way, he enjoyed having you chasing after him but he never had an interest in having you as a girlfriend, you said one minute he would say he likes you and the next he'd say he didn't know? This was to keep you interested, when the other boy started flirting with you he got jealous because he wants your attention on him all the time. Move on girl, he doesn't like you, he just loves the attention, he's not worth your eye sight, sorry if this hurts but he only loves on person and that's himself, he's kissing this girl to make you jealous and keep your attention and the more attention you give it the less you will move on, next time and every time after that when he kisses her pretend not to see, laugh with a friend as you walk by without a care in the world and forget him.

[Shybliss18]

I wish it was that easy and I have tried to move on but whenever I have forgotten about him and I would hang out with this other guy I liked and he walked me home and stuff like that but when I went to bed his face would always pop up and this happened after liking two boys and had there faces in my head in everything before I went to bed but then suddenly his face kept popping in my dreams. It makes since cause we had a little fight a few months ago and I refused to look at him. He would try so hard to get my attention the funny thing is that I'm the only girl he has ever done it too. These other girls they don't see him that way. That's one of the things he's done different from the other girls.

[adviceishere]

OK sorry was just trying to help

[Shybliss18]

I know its okay