[charmedinozark]

I met a awesome man online, we texted and talked for couple weeks then when out few times, I really like him he has great qualities.. he drives a truck over the road an is gone for several days at a time... I called him way too much an now I'm afraid I have scared him off... what should I do?

[Trueblu]

Don't assume you have scared him off. Just be patient and don't call for awhile. If it was meant to be he will call you sooner or later. Never assume and never call too often. It can cause a person to hardly get a chance to miss you. Let nature take it course. I was always taught that patience is a virtue. And loneliness is a state of mind. People come and go but you have you forever. Be patient he will call.

[I wish]

If I was crazy about a girl, I don't think that I would mind that they call me too much.

But how much is too much in your case? Did he tell you that you call him too much?

[Pretty3910]

If he felt the way you did twords him then he wouldn't have minded you calling him but if he did mind you calling him a lot then he doesn't feel the same way you do. Or he just doesn't have as strong as emotions twords you and you do to him.
You should not text or call him for a couple of days and see if he texts you or calls you. If he doesn't then he doesn't feel the same way and if he does call or text reply to it. But don't push it.

[Cat1864]

He's a truck driver so what might not seem like a lot calls to one person may be a lot for him especially if he is driving in bad conditions. At the time this question was posted most of the US was experiencing bad or dangerous weather. Also, his company may limit phone usage while driving.

Remember that he isn't behind a desk. His schedule is probably very different than most people you normally date.

Be patient, but don't put your life on hold. A couple of weeks is not really enough to be settled into any pattern. IF there is a relationship, you are still learning the when, what, where and how's of being a couple. While he is on the road, it is the equivalent of a long distance relationship. They take longer to figure out than those where you are in the same place all the time.

It may end up being a better friendship, if there is anything to it.

[talaniman]

Relax and let him call you if he misses you. Its much to early to have these kinds of worries.

[Fr_Chuck]

First I guess how much was too much,? And have you taken a break from calling him ? Perhaps even a text saying you are sorry for being too much of a pest. I mean is it 4 times a hour or is it 5 times a day ?

[charmedinozark]

Appreciate your suggestion, he has recently called and everything is back on track

[Cat1864]

I am glad things are back on track. Good luck. :)