Meco, do you live in the same city? I ask because you say that she 'visited' you and you 'visited' her?
How long did you know her before you started dating?
How long did you date before you agreed to be in a committed relationship?
If you are still 'dating' and today is included in your 'three months' dating, then you had barely been in a committed relationship before you asked her to marry you. I mean how long was it a month... month and a half? If you stop and think, don't you think that was rushing things?
I do think slowing down and actually getting to know someone before asking her to marry you is a good idea.
Don't put your life on hold waiting for her to decide what she wants, but make certain that you are officially broken up before you start dating other people.
Whatever else happens take care of yourself. Make certain that you know what you want. Make certain that you are asking someone to spend the rest of her life with you because you love the person and not because you have convinced yourself you should be married.
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