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    ChrisxIsxAPunk Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 5, 2011, 11:06 AM
    I Need Help Understanding My Sexual Needs...
    Okay, First off ill tell you that I'm a girl and I'm a teenager. Im turning 15 this October. Im having problems "down south" too.. Before, I think, maybe ever since I was young [ 9 and up] I was really into sex. I was turned on all the time and I even masterbated, A lot. Im gay too so girls turned me on so much. They still do actually. But now every time I look at a naked pic [boy or girl] or just see something about sex I don't get turned on! I actually get grossed out and my stomach turns. I can't masterbate AT ALL either! And when I do, I feel myself "***" but it DOES NOT feel good. I been feeling like this for the past few weeks... after I had my last perod which was last month after the 23rd I think. I also have a girlfriend I been seeing when I was on my period and ever since the 14th. I feel ever since then I'm not as crazy about sex/masterbating. Before then I was. Im always talking about girls and sex and I enjoy seeing them half naked or in bikins or wahtever. And I'm always checking out girls too when I'm out. I get real turned on by my girlfriend and she does too and I did have a huge crush on this other girl but I got over it last night. So what's rong with me? Please someone help because I hope I don't feel this way forever. Thanks.
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    Feb 5, 2011, 11:21 AM
    You're still young... You are confused about who you are as an individual. Know thyself.
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    Feb 5, 2011, 06:04 PM

    It sounds like you were exposed to sex and naked photos way to early in your life. At 14 some teens do masterbate and if you think about men or women or both is your business. But you will be over the next few years getting a better feel for what you really believe and what you do .

    So I will say your "needs" are more of feelings and desire, and a result of growing up, hormone changes and trying to decide who you are

    ** and you are still too young for sex
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    Feb 5, 2011, 09:46 PM

    At your age you are still discovering who and what you are now, and developing an ideal of what you will be and want to be.

    It is a confusing and difficult time in most peoples lives.
    It can also be the most fun and enjoyable at the same time.

    If you feel that something is wrong with you, take advantage of the counselors at your school and talk to them.

    A professional opinion can help you sort out your feelings.
    And begin to understand the changes you are going through right now.

    If not a counselor , maybe a member of the clergy you are associated with or trust.

    Maybe an aunt or older cousin could offer advice .

    I think you would be well served to talk this over with trusted people who have gone through the teen years. Especially females who can offer you what they learned from the experience.

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