[mikelco]

Hi I am 15, and I love a girl,but she has a boyfriend. And now I can't take it any more .due to the fact that we are best friends we know each other very well .its been 3 yrs now that I have loved her. Although we are quite free with each other but I couldn't express myself to her till now , afraid if she would no longer want to be with me even as a friend

Should I tel her about my feelings ?

[joypulv]

Yes, of course you should tell her. What if she is waiting for you to? What if she changes her mind about her boyfriend a week, a month, 6 months from now? If she says no, THEN you figure out how to stop the torture, probably by telling her you can't be just friends. Happens all the time.

Plan what you will say but don't make a huge all or nothing thing about it. Just say it right out: I've loved you for 3 years. It's very tough being just friends.

[aprilw72]

How do you think she feels about you? I mean you should be able to tell if she likes you at all in a bf/gf kind of way you know. If you don't think that she is that interested then I wouldn't tell her how you really really feel, maybe just let her know that you care a lot about her and are always there for her. You can pick with her about getting rid of her boyfriend and going out with you and you can tell by her response if its worth it or not. Good luck!!

[answerme_tender]

Mike,

Life is nothing but chances we take on this choices we make. Love happens to be one of those choices we take a chance on---So go for it. One way or another you will know.

Best of luck

[talaniman]

So you want to steal her from another guy? That's not right, keep your feelings to yourself and respect your friends relationship. Get your own girl, why don't you, because you have said nothing in 3 years anyway.

Your timing is lousy.