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    Feb 2, 2011, 07:21 AM
    We are only dating by email. We have met once. He says he is not involved w/anyone.
    I have been corresponding by email with this guy for 2-3 months. Recently, the emails have gotten really sexy. We have only met once in person. He was really nice. We kissed. Yet, he will not give me his phone number, and he doesn't ask me out. He says he hasn't had sex in three years. He says he is not dating anyone; and I believe him. He was in a relationship for 22 years, and they never married. She cheated on him. What do you think? Should I move on, or should I wait for him?
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    Feb 2, 2011, 07:28 AM

    If he won't give you his number he's hiding something. Don't know what it is, but there is something he does not want you (or someone else) to know.

    Time to move on.
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    Feb 2, 2011, 07:33 AM
    Dating by email is not dating.
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    Feb 2, 2011, 07:37 AM
    I wouldn't even kiss a man I knew so little about. Where he lives, works, proof of even his NAME and marital status. There's something to be said for being introduced by friends or family. Many people won't engage in online dating without documentation, no matter how cold that sounds. Even that can be faked.
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    Feb 3, 2011, 02:28 PM
    Move on, the fact that you're even questioning you're situation should tell you that something isn't right.
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    Feb 3, 2011, 04:05 PM
    I have moved on and thank everyone. I must have been blind.
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    Feb 3, 2011, 04:09 PM

    Here is from different view---why in the heck would you want to get involved with someone who was in a 22yr relationship, but wouldn't get married to her? They haven't had sex in 3years--goodness--go ahead and move on you will have to re-hydrate this one way too much!! Come on your instincts are screaming at you to use your common sense here!!

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