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Seriously? If you both express yourself as well as you did in the question, it's no surprise that there is confusion. It was hard to understand what you were saying. You can't 'make' anyone love you. It's a fact that people have spent much of their lives fruitlessly battling. Think of it this way. If you are old enough to be dating, you are old enough to have had at least one guy who liked you in vain. He might have treated you like a princess, he might have been the best thing for you, or he might have been the friend who wanted more. No matter, you couldn't 'make' yourself love him, anymore than he could 'make' you love him.
Missamelia is right, you need to talk with him. But before you do, you need to do some thinking on what you need to feel secure in a relationship. Are you insecure, do you see a potential rival every time he talks with an attractive girl? Do you give him a hard time when you see this happen? About half the world is women, and especially during the teens & 20's, most of the women are good-looking. Nothing kills affection like being constantly cross-examined and mistrusted. How would you feel if he constantly questioned you? Good luck to you both.
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