[MarMar12]

My boyfriend told me that he feels weird.. and that he thinks it would be better if we took a break.. we have had an on and off thing for a while, but we've been together for nearly 10 months.. We both have really strong feelings for each other.. at least that's what he tells me.. we took a break for about 2 days and then he texts me saying that he feels worse about taking a break, but he says he still feels weird, he just graduated high school. And I can't help but think that all of this has something to do with him wanting to seeing other people. And party it up.. I just want to know what his "feeling" means.. or if I'm wrong to think he wants to see other people?

[talaniman]

I think its pretty normal for a guy leaving high school to want to explore the new world he is about to enter. How old are you, when do you graduate?

Your other post is about a birthday gift, how did we get to a break so fast?

[MarMar12]

I'm 16 and he's 17.. he graduated early.. but the thing is that he always tells me that he loves me and that he knows I'm the one he wants to be with.. and just the other day he was being a total *** to me for no reason.. he gets super moody and he gets all assy.. I don't know if maybe I'm just being insensitive or if I have a right to be somewhat upset..

[talaniman]

Any one would be upset, but you should still just leave him alone. His words and actions don't match do they. Love is more than a word, its an action. His actions don't say love, but he is pushing you away.

[MarMar12]

Well my I guess you can call him my boyfriend have had an on and off thing going for a while.. he just turned 18 and he moved out a few days later.. but.. he told me that he wants to try again and this time it will be different that we won't have any problems this time and that hell be able to see me a lot more. But... I have been talking to a lot of guys and really enjoy the attention and flirting.. I'm not a slut or anything haha I just like to flirt.. but.. I still really like my "boyfriend" I just don't know if I should stay with him or just move on.. please help..

[adviceishere]

Well since this is an on/off thing and he's kind of your boyfriend, doesn't that mean he's kind of not your boyfriend too?

No I defo don't think you're a slut, in fact I was very much like this too, I loved to flirt and enjoyed the attention, doesn't mean your sleeping around!

But this is what tells me you shouldn't be tied down right now, your enjoying the single life and you should keep enjoying it until you feel ready for a full blown relationship. Of course you like your "boyfriend" why else would you be kind of with him but this isn't enough to get into a relationship with him, so let him down gently for both your sakes. :)

[amicon]

I think you stay single and enjoy your life-an on/off relationship doesn't really bode well for the future.

I'd say you move on.

[talaniman]

Why not just enjoy yourself without him, and end this on /off nonsense once and for all.

And your threads were merged because this was about the same situation with the same fellow.