[haleyjames]

I have been this girls best friend since kindergarten. We have been in the same room with each other until 6th grade came. When we started 5th grade about two weeks later there was this girl that came there and we all hated her that year. But in 6th grade my best friend and I was separated and she got in the room with that girl and they became close. Ever since 6th grade we have been drifting apart. We are in 7th grade now and my use to be best friend is in the room with that girl again. We have not talked for almost 5 weeks now. Last Friday I told my friend jess to tell her that I needed to know who she liked better and of course she said me but I know that's a lie. I Wrote her a note and I am going to give it to her when we go back to school which tomorrow. I will tell you what she says. What should I do though I need a lot of advise and have you ever been in this situation if you have tell me what you did and tell me what happened please.:confused: :rolleyes:

[Sodium]

Tell her how you feel at least let her no that u miss her

[s_cianci]

People's lives change over the years. Your best friend in kindergarten isn't necessarily going to be your best friend in 6th grade. By the time you get to 12th grade you'll have yet another best friend. This is normal and something you need to be prepared for. But, to add perspective, why do you feel that you have to compete with this other girl? Can't your friend in question have more than one friend? Can't she be friends with you and this other girl as well? Can't you be friends with the both of them also? You state that everyone disliked this girl when she first came on board in 5th grade. What was the reason for that? Was she truly a mean, nasty person who deserved to be disliked? Or did everyone just resent the fact that there was a new girl in school? Were people jealous that she'd want to be friends with some of your classmates? You can't expect her to remain alone in a vacuum, can you? Unfortunately I think there's more jealousy and insecurity at play here as opposed to a legitimate concern.

[talaniman]

This is no big deal since your friend got to know this other girl and they became friends. Natural, and if you gave it a chance you might be friends with her also. Stop being jealous and get to know her and remember your friend has every right to choose who her friends are and you cannot tell people who to like. Get with the program and have fun and leave the petty stuff alone.

[talaniman]

Jealousy will get you no where in life, hope one day you will grow out of it.