[jkil4]

In my opinion I think that we must first try to see why WE are attracting this kind of MAN Or Woman in out lives.

I have been the needy one, and I have also been on the other side if it as well.
After my marriage (were I was needy) I became cold, calus, and unemotional with every man I dated. I couldn't even think of wanting to commit or be involved for too long.
I wasn't needy at all? What happened? I got a taste of life! YEAHH If was great.
But after 12 yrs of being single I started worrying that I would be forever.
I have been in two very serious relationships, the one right before this one he wasn't able to at 52 to even start wanting to settle down, and with that in mind I shut that down as fast as I could seeing there was no future for me.
This one I'm currently in is great except he's very jealous and needy and has to have contstant reassurance all the time! And he's sucking the life out of me!!
Until today I deciced that if I want to ever have anyone in my life that I was going to spend my life with,well then I better try to make a change if I can, he loves me and I know that he will TRY and I am ready for that too.
Its something in ME that makes him this way. And I know it.
So if I bend, move, try a little harder instead of giving up so quickly maybe I will be here for a loving longlasting relationship with a man that I know loves me and that I love very passionately as well.
Good luck I know we all need a little of it.

Indy Ladd

[J_9]

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[jkil4]

This was an answer to a question someone had, but was put in the wrong space. Sorry