[pitodd70]

My girlfriend of 2 years has lost her passion for me. Various reasons she has stated had lead to her feeling like this toward me. My ex who I left just prior to becoming involved with my current girlfriend has been a nightmare ex. I owned a house with her, and left. She and her four kids aged 17-22 stayed there. I continued to pay half of mortgage for six months and eventually quit and filed for bankruptcy. My ex could not refinace and is being forced out of house in near future. My current girlfriend things I care for this other woman for l let her stay in the house(which I surrendered in bankruptcy)and let her live there for free while I rent a house for myself and my current girlfriend. My ex is a mouthy mad woman who has gotten to my girl. My girl knows I didn't mean for this to happen- but I allowed it. I truly didn't mean to have my girlfriends feelings hurt from this bitter woman, but they have been and she can't get over it. She says she loves me but for this I have broken her heart. We have not had sex in 6 weeks and she states she no longer has the passion for me anymore. What do I do? I love this girl but she is making my life very difficult.

[talaniman]

How can she have passion when you have so much baggage from you past popping up in her life with you?

If all you can think about is sex, or the lack of, then try handling your business better, with the ex, and get her out of your life. Then she couldn't get to your girl could she?

[pitodd70]

Thank you for replying talaniman, the problem here is that my ex has not had any contact withme in 5 months! but my girl just can't get over it. This is so tough!

[ChickyBaby]

You will find someone new. :)

Just let it go... the drama is over now and she is still mad. :(

Please, you need to find someone who is a little more mature and start fresh!