First of all, it is going to hurt. It is not just the breaking of the hymen that hurts. Actually the hymen does not have any nerve endings so, that really doesn't hurt.
It is because of the smaller size of the vagina and the larger size of the penis. It is the stretching of the vagina that hurts. So, either way it will hurt. Some women hurt more than others though.
Now, if you don't know that this is the right guy for you, you should wait. Wait until you know for sure that this is the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with. You never know if you will get pregnant or not. If you do, and you don't care for the guy, you will spend the rest of your life connected to him through your child.
Remember sex = pregnancy, if you are not ready for the possible consequences, you aren't ready for sex.
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