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    giallorosso986 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 13, 2007, 05:32 PM
    G/F Going to Dance With Another Guy at Another School
    My G/F is going to a Winter Dance with another guy at another school, not the school I attend, she asked me if it was okay and I said it was, even though I don't feel that way at all, I trust her, but I am uncomfortable w/ her going, I don't even no the guy who asked her and it makes me feel so awkward just thinking about it, what if he tries to make a move, what if they kiss, and I have told her how I feel, how I feel uncomfortable with her going and how I trust her but I no she will be pissed if I told her not 2 go
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    Jan 13, 2007, 05:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by giallorosso986
    my G/F is going 2 a Winter Dance with another guy at another school, not the school i attend, she asked me if it was okay and i said it was, even though i dont feel that way at all, i trust her, but i am uncomfortable w/ her going, i dont even no the guy who asked her and it makes me feel so ackward just thinking about it, what if he tries to make a move, what if they kiss, and i have told her how i feel, how i feel uncomfortable with her going and how i trust her but i no she will be pissed if i told her not 2 go
    Well you should have told her in the first place that u felt uncomfterble with her going to another dance with another guy. She should no in the first place since she already has a boyfriend
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    Jan 13, 2007, 07:05 PM
    I'm so sorry, but your Gf might have the hots for this guy. Why else would she want to go to the dance with him instead of bringing you as her date??
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    Jan 13, 2007, 07:16 PM
    It's possible she may just be friend's with him. Maybe she just didn't say anything because she knew how you'd act? I've done or tried to do the same thing. My b/f hate's dances whereas I love it. So maybe just find out by asking her or her friend's whom you can trust.
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    Jan 13, 2007, 08:07 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by AKaeTrue
    I'm so sorry, but your Gf might have the hots for this guy. Why else would she want to go to the dance with him instead of bringing you as her date???
    It's a dance hosted by another school which makes me unable 2 go, the guy who asked my g/f goes to that school!
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    Jan 13, 2007, 09:26 PM
    I think you should tallk to your girlfriend and tell her how you really feel about her going to the dance with another guy . Its hard to tell her but that will make you fell better or if you want you could just don't do anything about it and nothing will change

    *hope that helps little bit
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    Jan 13, 2007, 09:28 PM
    How do these two know each other? If they've been friends for a long time then I wouldn't be too worried. If he just popped up in her life then I think you need to reconsider this relationship. But I say give the guy a chance maybe he was to scared to ask anyone at his school and he knew your girl would like to go.
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    Jan 13, 2007, 09:38 PM
    The fact that your girlfriend accepted an invitation from another guy from another school makes me wonder just how solid your relationship is. You state that you told her initially that it was OK even though you didn't feel that way, then you go on to state that you told her that you're uncomfortable with her going. Then you conclude by stating that you know she'll be pissed if you tell her not to go. Truth is, you should have told her upfront from the get-go how you feel. If I were you I'd go on a break for a while. Get involved in other activities without her and meet and date other people. I'm sorry, but the fact that she's going to a dance with a guy from a different school indicates that she really isn't very committed to you. If you take this stand and tell her that you're going on this break she'll actually have more respect, if not affection, for you then if you just passively lie down and sulk over it.
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    Jan 13, 2007, 10:07 PM
    Honesty in a relationship is so important. You really should have told her your true feelings upfront. Now you must bite the bullet since she now has your blessing. Maybe you both need to get together and agree on what is a relationship. Dating others is not on my list of a healthy relationship.
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    Jan 14, 2007, 08:39 PM
    Sorry, I guess it's been so long since I've been to a school dance, I've forgotten how it's for students only.
    I like Raynefreaks answer. I think it's a good way to approach the situation.

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