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    Jan 14, 2011, 08:03 PM
    Who Is My Baby's Father?
    Ok, so I had unprotected sex with my ex boyfriend on November 14th, 2010. A couple days later I got my period as regular. A little lighter than usual but it was still there. On November 25th, 2010 I had unprotected sex with my new boyfriend and haven't gotten my perid since. I took a pregnancy test on January 5th, 2011 and it came out positive. Is my ex boyfriend my baby's father or my new boyfriend?

    *** help!!
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    Jan 14, 2011, 08:25 PM

    There is no possible way to know till the baby is born and you do a DNA test. While there is a better chance on new boyfriend, there is a chance it is the old boyfriend.

    So you will just have to wait till baby is born to know for sure
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    Jan 14, 2011, 08:27 PM
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    Ugh! Its so hard. Like old boyfriend knows I'm pregnant but doesn't know that it might not be his since he never calls or texts. I haven't gotten the chance to tell him at all. I don't even have a way to get in contact with him. New boyfriend knows..
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    Jan 14, 2011, 08:29 PM
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    He's willing 2 wait. But I don't wnt him 2 buy anything without knowing 4 sure.. but then again I need 2 start buying stuff once I find out the sex. Its so hard cause I know old boyfriend will never talk to me aqain & I still love him, I made a big mistak
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    Jan 14, 2011, 08:34 PM

    Yep, big mess, esp if you still love the old boyfriend, And of course you may find yourself without either before child is born.

    Do you have family or close friends you can count on during this time
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    Jan 14, 2011, 08:35 PM
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    I know new boyfriend will always be there. He's always like I know its mine so if it is I'm good.. if not I'm still good cause its by old boyfriend && I still love him.
    I do not have a family.. lOlx.. but 1 real close friend so... im good.
    thanxx =)
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    Jan 14, 2011, 10:41 PM

    Please do not use the comments feature to follow up. Just scroll down to the Answer box.

    As Chuck has said, there is no way to know until a DNA test is done after the birth.

    So, you love both men? If this is the case, don't you think you are doing them both a great disservice?
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