[patiapatino]

I have this new friend and she always hangs out with the bi-sexual people. And she has this picture from her past with this girl that everyone calls alex and there toutching tongues. And when we hang out she kind of get alil to friendly for my like tries to do stuff with me id do with a boyfirend would do. Like cuddle and stuff. There's roumors I'm bi, so maybe she thinks I am. Idw ask her if she is and be rude...

[joypulv]

She's your friend so it's not rude to ask. Just do it nicely when no one else is around.

[Fr_Chuck]

First why do you care ? What difference if she is ?

Are you interested in her that way ?

But yes, ask

[answerme_tender]

You might want to ask her if she has ever heard a rumor of you being bi-sexual, and go on to explain that you are not, and that you are in fact uncomfortable with other people getting into your personnel space, such as cuddleing,etc. See what her reaction is and go from there.

[Cat1864]

If you are uncomfortable with the way she acts with you, it doesn't matter what her sexuality is or yours. What matters is that you don't like what she is doing to you and how 'friendly' she gets.

Talk to her about how her actions affect you. Explain that you are uncomfortable with how close she gets and that you need more space. It is rude of her to presume that you welcome her 'advances' (for lack of a better term) without asking you if she is crossing boundaries.

Some people don't think about the personal boundaries of other people until they are told they are crossing them. You have your boundaries-let her know she is crossing them. Sexuality doesn't have to come into it.