[PrettyYT]

I have been married for 8 years now and have one handsome son who will be 4 years old in June. When I got married to my husband, I thought he was the right man for me but with every passing year, I am convinced I made a terrible mistake. Few months back, I met someone whom I really have a crush on but he has no idea. I cannot tell him and worse still, he moved and I cannot bring myself to tell him what I feel. What can I do?

[Alty]

You can try to fix your marriage, go to counseling, work on the relationship you made a commitment to. Or, you can get a divorce and pursue this other guy.

[Devorameira]

You can be an upright person and not pursue this other man. You pledged your love and loyalty to your husband. If you truly don't want to be with him, at least have enough respect to tell him and divorce him before you pursue other interests.

Do you and your husband not get along or is he a great guy?

If you're willing to risk losing a husband that's a pretty good guy, then you need to seek some counseling. There's a ton of women on here that would love to have a man who treats them and their children well.

[talaniman]

Forget the other guy, and find out why you feel you have made a mistake marrying your husband, and what you both should do about it. No one has to know what's deep inside you about this crush, but your husband needs to know that you both have work to do together, or what's the point of being married?

Take care of home first, and foremost. The rest can wait until that is settled. Be honest with the guy you married, and yourself.