[ashley.shay]

Hi Everyone!
I desperately need help! I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and everything is great when were together. He had a baby with his high school sweetheart and his daughter is 6 years old. His baby momma is still in love with him and it kills her that he has moved on. She calls and text me telling me that they have been seeing each other. I have a key to his house and don't know what to believe. It gets better... we live an hour away so its even harder! We broke up for a day and she found out so he allowed her to come over and "talk". He said he just wanted to hear what she had to say but then she sent me these text that he sent her saying that he loved her. I'm so confused and don't know who to believe! Has anyone been in this similar situation? HELP!

[talaniman]

Does he know she has been in touch with you, and sending "texts" of his to you?? Show him the texts, and see what he says.

They have to have some sort of contact seeing they have a child together, and an hour between you may have you very insecure because he does have an ex with a child by him. She obviously is up to no good, and has her own best interests at heart, but its hard to believe that you haven't had this conversation at length with him about her.

If you can't trust a guy when he isn't around, or haven't communicated enough to know the truth, or can't handle the distance, then I fail to see the point of even being in a situation such as this, no matter how good the dates go.

Maybe you need to re evaluate if all this drama is her, throwing crap in the game, and what part he is actually playing in tis drama. Then you can see if he is worth it or not. So you better be asking him what the heck does she think she is doing and fast, or else permanently remove yourself from their drama.

[Devorameira]

It's very possible that she's just trying to get you to break up with him so he may re-gain interest in her, but it's hard to say.

If you trust your guy and he's never given you any indication that he's a cheat, then you need to discuss it with him and then let it go.

If you truly feel like he'd cheat on you, you need to end it.

[curlyqisme]

I'm going through this right now.. dump him ASAP. He sounds like a player. Believe his ex. Then again, she could be lying just to break you to up to get what she wants. Follow your heart.

[Fr_Chuck]

First he will have to forever have some contact with the ex. That is just something you have to get used to. Is the boyfriend, telling her to stop, what is his role